I suppose they say that "No news is good news"
Of course, "no news" also makes for pretty dull news.
We're in the old "neither of us is really doing anything which is likely to be specifically constructive but you never know she might feel horny" routine for the most part, at the moment.
There're a few attempts by her to try to start thinking horny-thoughts now and again (e.g. reading porn), but in general such attempts do not lead anywhere. I try to just make her happy in general (not that it makes much difference) and try to do anything I can to help turn her on. Which isn't much. Nagging doesn't really do it ;)
Right now, the last time any fun stuff happened between us was on our honeymoon, so I guess that was more than eight weeks ago now.
Oh well.
Not sure what else I have to say that's interesting, really. Maybe I need to watching soaps and making notes ;)
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I am one of those aforementioned people that you have not been to see yet because you are hoping to sort things out for yourselves. That is what i base my information on.
ReplyDeleteWhat else is going on in your life aside from your relationship?
Maybe 'your public' might like to get to know who you are, in general.
Generally helping her out, is always a good thing. A word of clarity though, an issue as important as this one needs to be tackled head on (no irony intended) or it can cause people to become indifferent and comfortable with the status quo, then sooner or later the void where sex should be, may come up to bite one of you in the butt.
That's how affairs can begin.
Aha, aha-haha.
ReplyDeleteI do remember thinking some time ago when you suggested seeing a "psychosexual therapist" that it was a very specific term and not the sort of thing you'd normally just drop into a conversation ;)
So, satisfy my curiosity. If this is your day job, why put up with listening to yet another whinging old sod? :)
I'll try to post something more relevant when I have more time. Tired now and off to bed. Good night!
Ah well now, that is a good question and a long tale which i will endeavour to tell, briefly.
ReplyDeleteIt is my day job yes, but it isn't just a job for me, i love what i do, it springs forth from the core of who i am and the two are somewhat inseparable.
I also enjoy reading blogs to unwind. It is one of several things i do to relax. So, when i happened across your blog, several elements came together for me and i bookmarked you.