I brought up the subject of sex in "conversation" earlier.
It went something a little like this...
Me: Sooo, thought any more about sex recently?
Her: Erm... Not really
Me: Well, got any ideas or plans?
Her: Uhm... Not really...
(An uncertain "I don't know" on any subject tends to mean "No")
Me: Well, you're not going to just magically feel horny all of a sudden, are you.
Her: I... don't know...
The conversation pretty much ended there, as she managed to distract herself with something else. As I've said before, she doesn't like thinking about it because she feels bad/guilty. Which means she avoids thinking about it. Which means nothing happens.
And I know I didn't exactly remain neutral, and I was fairly <<oh bugger I've forgotten the word I was about to use. that's too many late nights that is>> aggressive <<not quite right, but close enough>> towards her, but honestly, I just wish that she could start a conversation like this with me once in a while.
"Look, I'm sorry we still haven't had sex, but..." -- at least it would be something.
But almost every time I bring the topic up, she just ends up depressed and we don't get anywhere.
<sigh>
And hey, you never know. Maybe I'll go into the really embaressing details on here one day. Wouldn't that be... fun.
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I don't understand the "no sex" thing i mean sex is great why not have it as often as possible!! do you live together? is she sick? and thanx 4 the comment on my blog. it's my hous and We're not violent i just think about it.
ReplyDeletelol, yes, we live together, and no, she's not sick.
ReplyDeleteI guess you've only read my last couple of blog entries (let's face it, reading the lot would take about sixteen years), so here's the summary:
I began this blog because I was getting married in a few short months, to the girl with whom I have lived for five+ years. I wasn't sure whether I was doing the right thing.
My biggest concern was the lack of sex. (At the moment, I'd say we're at the "once every two-three months" sort of level)
Well, we got married in March.
Still not really got anywhere on the sex front though.
And so I am still blogging.
Oh, also... I don't really understand the "no sex" thing either. Yes, it is great. Yes, she used to enjoy it too. No, she doesn't want any.
ReplyDeleteShe just doesn't think about it.